If you’ve read FBNW for a while, you know I *adore* Reclamation Design Company! Designer Trista’s gowns are breathtaking, one of a kind, size flexible works of magic. I feel so lucky that I wore one of her gowns down the aisle for my wedding in September. (You can read about it in my previous post!)
My gown gives the reclaimed vintage lace it’s made of new life. I don’t want it to gather dust again now that my wedding has come and gone.
If you have an upcoming maternity, family, or engagement shoot and want to bring out your inner goddess–or you’re a photographer who wants to give clients something beautiful and unique to wear for a session or styled shoot–this dress is *it.* It fits sizes small through XXL, including moms-to-be.
In fact, my dress’ first shoot post-wedding was for my dear friend Blake at eight months pregnant with her beautiful baby boy! She kindly let me do her makeup, put on my dress, and modeled to utter perfection:
And PS: if you live in the Austin area, not only can I deliver the dress right to your house, but you can also rent *this:*
This is no zip tie crown! Each one of those wooden spikes are hand-drilled into the headband and further secured by the wrapped gold fabric. This is a legit crown from Batcakes Couture and it’s one of the most sturdy-yet-flexible and comfortable accessories I’ve ever owned. (You can see me wearing it in my previous post.)
*deep breaths*
Ok, here goes.
When I started Fly By Night Wedding in January 2019, I stayed anonymous on purpose. And not just online! I told no one, fiancx and therapist included, that I created a wedding blog.
If FBNW failed but no one in my life knew about it, I thought, then I wouldn’t feel ashamed or embarrassed. Because if the blog failed then *I* failed, and I definitely didn’t want anyone to know that. Also, what if people thought it was vapid? Or ridiculous? More reason to hide! (See why I’ve got a therapist?)
Where to find plus size dresses outside the few well-known labels where trendy, unique dresses under $2,000 don’t exist. Dresses people on a shoestring budget can actually afford. Literally anything acknowledging that queer people get married, attend, *and* are in wedding parties, and often butt up against cisheteronormative erasure and violence in the process no matter their role in a wedding.
Navigating these things, I felt like I was making it up as I went along–and I knew I couldn’t be the only one with Bridal Imposter Syndrome. So I decided to share what I was learning and Fly By Night Wedding was born.
I’m Layne, the one in the dress, and I got married to my fiancx Mark on September 14, 2019 in Austin, Texas where we live. I moved to Austin in 2013 to get my masters in creative writing. But after a dark, difficult time in grad school (TW: intimate partner violence), the thought of writing left me sad and sickened.
It’s funny–a lot of what makes me anxious about sharing FBNW with people in my life is what makes it fun to write. It’s (mostly) straightforward, quippy, and *cute.* And coming from my particular writing background, my self-consciousness about writing something “fluffy” about ~weddings of all things~ is through the roof.
But I’ve written FBNW for a *year* and before now, only told Mark and my therapist. And I don’t want to keep my little labor of love a secret anymore.
And since I started FBNW as a bride-to-be planning a wedding, here’s a bit about the big day!
(All photos by Donny Tidmore Photography)
Happy holidays, everybody! Not only does this time of year come with hot cocoa, cozy sweaters, and (hopefully!) time to relax indoors away from the cold, but also ~really, really good~ wedding dress deals. This post includes normal price affordable dresses *and* some sweet sale items that won’t be around long, so make note of your favorites ASAP!
Honestly, just click the link and watch the dress video on ASOS, because it moves *so* beautifully! And does not look like a dress that only costs $285. Like, really.
Allover lace plus a bustier bodice equals a sexy-yet-refined bridal look that’s a touch boho, a hint of pinup, and overall flirty and modern. This dress is only $261!
Got a New Year’s elopement and looking for just the right outfit? Beaded cape fringe makes this flapper dress feel current, fun, and offbeat without getting costume-y. This dress is $238.
This gown includes an on trend tulle maxi overskirt for an easy ceremony to reception transition. That’s two wedding looks for only $371!
ALERT: big BHLDN markdown! This bell-sleeved beauty is now only $499–a big drop from $1,395. Currently all sizes from 00-16 are available, but with BHLDN’s current sale I doubt that will last for long!
ALERT AGAIN: another big BHLDN markdown! This gorgeous high neck, allover lace gown was originally $1,695 and is now only $499! Most sizes between 00-18 are still available, but if you’re crushing on this dress I’d buy it ASAP.
A vintage lace, made-to-order in your size wedding dress for only $485? You’re not dreaming. (Dame and Maiden has a lot of other stunning vintage lace dresses to drool over, too.)
I love the whimsical beaded sleeves of this dress! This elegant boho gown is only $350.
This dress can be made up to a size 4XL and is only $250! BlushFashion gets rave reviews for how comfortable, high quality, and well-fitting their dresses are, so this price tag seems like a steal.
This flowy yet structured gown looks like what an ancient Greek goddess would wear for her modern wedding! Available in every size from 0-18 and only $325.
This delicate, ethereal dress is available in an XS-XL for $330, and for $379 can be custom made in any size. I *adore* the short flutter sleeve accent on the fitted long sleeve!
This ultra sleek, modern halter gown is only $220 and currently available in every size from 0-16.
ALERT: this BHLDN markdown is a total steal at only $499–down from an original price of $1500! Sizes left are limited, so snap this up quick if it’s on your radar.
Edgy, rock’n’roll gowns are some of my absolute favorites! But with their intricate design elements–fringe, tassels, carefully placed intricate laces, etc.–they often carry a heavy price tag. This free-spirited dress can be made in US size 2-16, or custom-sized, for only $350!
Are there other wedding dress steals happening right now people should know about? Spill in the comments! Plus, if you’re looking for accessories to finish your look check out FBNW’s list of boho headpieces and hair accessories!
This edition of Under the Radar features maybe the first wedding dress designer I ever swooned over: Fable Dresses!
Fable Dresses’ Etsy says they’ve only been operating since 2017. But I swear I remember seeing owner and designer Jada’s dresses floating around the internet years before that and was in *love.*
UGH. So delicate and pretty! All of Fable’s creations are hand embroidered and handmade from recycled materials. I just want to flit through the forest talking to birds and squirrels a la Snow White in one of these gowns. (A girl can dream, right?)
Fable Dresses offers affordable and eco friendly options for brides who want color and whimsy in their wedding outfit without spending a fortune. All of their dress options are less than $1,000. And this dress (with hand-embroidered butterflies on the shoulders!) is only $250!
Plus, you can get an embroidered ring pillow to match your look for an all-around magical ceremony:
Fable also offers belts with crystals, beads, and other glimmery baubles to accessorize their magical dresses! Which are also versatile enough to match your own mystical outfits. Personally, I think they’d make great festival wear!
So get over to Fable’s Etsy now, because all pieces are one of a kind! You don’t want to miss out on something magical.
Do you know a designer I should feature in an Under the Radar post? Let me know in the comments! (And if you want to see more magical dresses, check out these glittery, shimmery wedding gowns.)
If you read this blog for more than two seconds, it’s clear that I *love* wedding dresses and outfits! How creativity and ritual come together in a wedding dress makes my heart flutter. But one aspect of planning my wedding that didn’t meet the fairy tale ideal was wedding dress shopping.
It wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t 100% the magical experience I dreamt of. I’m on the edge of plus size, so I’d often have to try on too small sample size dresses and grimace in the mirror. More than one salesperson said something like, “Oh don’t worry about how it fits, that’s just the sample size.”
Between comments like that, not carrying the sample sizes needed to fit the average American woman who wears a larger size than I do, and dress prices passed to you face down like they’re NSFW, the shopping process often felt impersonal, inconsiderate, and outdated.
Lyra Vega Bridal was founded in 2016 to counter traditional dress shopping and is dedicated to creating a more personalized, positive experience for today’s brides.
LVB’s dresses combine boho, modern, and romantic elements into versatile dresses with wide appeal. I love how the Deb dress above combines boho bell sleeves and classic lace with a breathtaking off-the-shoulder mermaid gown!
LVB offers transparent, affordable pricing on made-to-measure gowns you can order online. Their highest price point is $995!
Plus, there are no hidden fees and you get free shipping for all gowns!
Shop Lyra Vega Bridal here! And top off your beautiful Lyra Vega dress with a statement piece from FBNW’s list of unconventional boho headpieces and hair accessories!
Sparkly wedding dresses are having a big moment! Shimmery, magical boho dresses are popping up everywhere and I love it.
My (totally unscientific) theory is that a Chosen By One Day’s iconic Nala gown, featured in styled shoots that have blown up Instagram and Pinterest, started the trend. I *drooled* the first time I saw Nala–then I saw the $7,000 price tag.
Other designers have taken note, however, and now there are *so many* more affordable sparkly dresses on the market–including some beautiful emulations of Chosen’s sought after sparkly gowns. Here are some of the best sparkly dresses I’ve come across–all with a much less painful price tag than Nala!
Obsessed with Chosen’s Nala but don’t have seven thousand dollars lying around to spend on a wedding dress? Artemia to the rescue! Artemia’s all over sparkle, nude slip, delicate sleeves, and open back have the same ethereal beauty as Nala–but at $1,995 a much less intimidating price tag.
Almost a dead ringer for the Artemia from sister brand Willowby by Watters, the Lunella has a deeper, more daring V-neck and is available with ivory and champagne slips. Lunella’s price range is $1,970-$2,378 and is available up to a size 24.
Lunella’s pearlescent counterpart! The Mercury is available up to a size 24 and its price range is $1,950-$2,338.
Live your dream of being a golden goddess on your wedding day in this incredible dress, which is made to order in every size. Reclamation’s dresses are known for their impeccable design and adjustable, comfy fit–which I know from experience, wink wink–and at $955.26, is a steal.
Wear the romance of a night sky in the Orion, a jaw-droppingly beautiful option for brides who want to radiate celestial magic. The Orion is $1,995.
The gentle contrast of ivory sequin florals on this dress’ white lace makes for a look that romantic, whimsical, and sophisticated all at once. For a standout couture bridal look, the $583 price tag is ~not bad~.
A romantic yet glam gown with flutter sleeves, a plunging backline, and all over sequin glitter, the Lorimer is $675.
More and more brides are killing it in colorful dresses on their wedding day, and all over sequins will turn everyone’s heads! This dress, available in deep red and deep green, is only $118.99.
Another sequined stunner from Morning Lavender with a tassel tie waist for a glam look with a touch of boho! At only $88.99, this dress is great for brides on a budget who want to glitter their way down the aisle.
White beads and silver sequins give this starry dress its night sky glitter. The Counting Stars Dress can be ordered with ivory, light beige, dark beige or blush lining and is $1,990.
Yet another beautiful celestial gown with nude tulle and *glittery winged unicorns*–yep, no joke–for brides who want to feel like the ultimate fairy tale princess! E&W doesn’t list prices for individual gowns on their website, but their FAQ notes most of their dresses range between £1,500-£2,000 or approximately $1,666-$2,222.
Silver sequins + open back + flutter sleeves = simple, sophisticated glam! The Halsey Dress is $375.
A simple silhouette with all over sequins, this dress is for the classic bride who wants an unexpected touch of modern glitz! At only $285, this dress is easy on the budget–but ASOS’ website notes that it’s selling quickly, so jump on it if this is the dress for you!
A cross hatch pattern adds complexity to this sleek, simple yet impactful gold sequin dress. This dress is £950.00 or approximately $1,055.
This gold shimmer dress is for the glam rock brides! Studded white block heel boots, a painted black leather jacket with fringe, a bouquet with bold red and coral tones, and this dress would make the *perfect* rocker bride look. Throw a “‘Til Death” neon sign on the wall behind your sweetheart table and you’re set! The best news? The Vicky is available up to a size 26 and is only $198!
The flowing lines of silver sequins on Boom Blush’s Galaxy dress are romantic, glam, and boho all at once! The Galaxy Dress is $1,590.
Style this shimmery dress with a star tiara and dried bouquet to look like an ethereal celestial princess! The Brenda Dress is $325.
This dress offers modern sophistication and bold sparkle! At $308, it’s affordable for the vast majority of brides but like the previous ASOS dress, it’s selling quickly–so snag it while you can!
BHLDN categorizes this gold sequined dress as mother of the bride/special occasion, but it has untapped bridal potential! Style with a crown of large red peonies and a pampas grass-accented bouquet and you’ve got a magazine-worthy wedding look. (Plus, it’s only $360.)
Are there any swoon-worthy sparkly dresses I’m missing? Let me know in the comments! And top off your scintillating wedding look with a statement piece from FBNW’s list of unconventional boho headpieces and hair accessories!
Hi there! I’m starting a new FBNW post category called Under the Radar. In these posts, I’ll highlight designers and other wedding creatives doing *amazing* work that don’t have super wide visibility or follower counts (yet!)
Halseene is a women-owned wedding wear company currently creating exclusively plus size bridal wear, with a mission “to empower all women to feel like they have the options needed in order to be their bold + badass self on their wedding day.” Pretty cool, right?
Halseene creates clean, modern boho gowns with occasional bold touches–like the Paloma’s incredible sequin skirt!
You can shop all of Halseene’s designs online. If you want to try on dresses IRL, they’re currently only available in Vancouver and Calgary flagship stores. But their website notes they’ll be available in a small handful US and UK stores soon.
Halseene’s gowns range from $2,400 – $2,700 and are made to order in size range 14-40. Their website notes they want to eventually include smaller sizes, but are “currently focusing on the segment of the market that is grossly underrepresented in our industry.” To which I say, rock on.
Who else in the wedding world deserves a shout out in Under the Radar? Let me know in the comments!
Hi there! So I’ve been gone for a little while.
This is for 100% good reasons: planning my own wedding *and* a dear friend’s baby shower! I wanted my heart and focus dedicated to both events, so Fly By Night Wedding took a backseat for a few months.
Now I’m just over a month married, my friend is showered, and I’m so happy to be back! Once we get professional photos I’ll do a longer post about our wedding (and my dress!), the shower, and who I am IRL since I’ve been shy putting a face to FBNW. I’m a little nervous but also excited about lifting the veil, so to speak. 😉
In the meanwhile, I’m psyched for this post about one of my favorite topics: trendy, boho plus size wedding dresses you can actually afford.
Fly By Night Wedding’s most read post daily, almost without exception, is my first post about beautiful plus size boho dresses under $2,000. This isn’t shocking, with how hard it is to find dresses that are plus size, boho, and won’t cost you your firstborn. I’m amazed I haven’t come across more lists like this one, to be honest. I’ve known for a while that another list of affordable plus size boho gowns was due–I just had to find the gowns to make it happen!
So…ta-da! The October 2019 installment of gorgeous, affordable plus size boho wedding dresses! *cue noisemaker sound and confetti you’ll find in your hair for three weeks*
Just like the first installment, all of these dresses are $2000 or less–in some cases *much* less. Let’s dive in!
Lyra Vega is dedicated to an easier online wedding dress shopping experience for brides. They offer affordable, transparent pricing and size inclusivity. Returns are even allowed on their made-to-your-size dresses, which I’ve never seen from another bridal shop.
Plus, the dresses are stunning! I’ve never seen an off-the-shoulder bell sleeve dress quite like the Deb, a steal at $995.
Simple, modern, and romantic all at once, this dress is so versatile! Accessorize with dramatic jewelry and pampas crown for a magical desert elopement, or a simple crystal tiara for a mystical, queenly look. And the best news? This dress is only $490!
Plus brides looking for a boho look that’s bold, sensual, and won’t kill your budget: Saldana Vintage is *it.* They’ve expanded their plus dress selection to include 15 of their standard new lace dresses. With the exception of this dress–which is $1,098–they all cost under $1,000 and are made to your measurements. Although all the product pictures are currently of straight size models in smaller sizes of dresses, SV notes on their plus size new lace dress page that they’ll have photos of plus size models in the dresses on the site soon!
Look. At. That. Fringe! This cotton crochet lace dress is bold, sleek, sexy, and at $798? Gimme it.
This. Dress. Is. So. *Gorgeous.* The subtle hi-lo hem, lacy bell sleeves, and touch of open back are just perfect. For sizes above a UK 18, this dress can be made to your measurements for $816.65.
The intricate botanical lace and a simple, clean silhouette of this dress makes it a great option for brides with a modern, minimalist boho vibe! This dress is $1,589.34.
This dress is ultra feminine and ethereal, perfect for brides who want a soft, romantic boho look! This dress is $1,485.83.
Yeah ok, I had to share one more LaSabina Plus dress because *hot damn* is it gorgeous. That lace with dreamy off shoulder ruffle sleeves puts butterflies in my stomach! This dress is $1,554.94.
I have *such* a big crush on this lace–don’t you want to just dance under a desert sunset in this thing? Dame & Maiden uses rare vintage lace to make this and all their incredible dresses to your measurements. This dress is $1,550.
I couldn’t write a post about affordable plus size wedding gowns without including at least one dress from Reclamation Design Company, which offers some of the most breathtakingly gorgeous wedding gowns out there *period,* at prices that are hard to believe. Reclamation’s custom glitter gowns start at $827.62 for standard sizes, with their Etsy shop quoting “XL and above subject to slight extra charge for lace.” My educated guess is the upcharge would vary depending on your size. But with Reclamation’s most expensive dress listed as $1,300, I’m pretty certain plus size brides could get the glitter gown of their dreams for well under my stated $2,000 maximum for this post.
Finding enough dresses for this list was *so* much easier than my original affordable plus size boho wedding dresses post, and I’m really excited to see even more designers and labels get into the plus size wedding dress game! Have you found other amazing plus size boho wedding dresses for under $2,000? Let me know in the comments!
Plus, if you’re looking for accessories to finish your look check out FBNW’s list of unconventional boho headpieces and hair accessories!
It’s time again for one of my favorite topics: Pinterest wedding dresses and where to find them!
This one is different from previous PWD&WTFT posts. (Lol at that ridiculous acronym, btw.) Instead of featuring a few different dresses, I’m going to focus on one dress and not just where to buy it, but where to find similar dresses from legit shops. This dress is a little different in that a few labels that have designed very pretty and wearable emulations of the original, so I want to show you the different available options.
So let’s dive in!
This image has been plastered across Pinterest countless times, but I haven’t once seen it link to the original dress: the Self-Portrait pleated crochet floral maxi dress. Kate Middleton wore this dress to a November 2016 movie premiere, which given when this image was blowing up Pinterest, is likely what made it so popular! At 340 euros, or approximately $379, this is one of the most affordable designer Pinterest wedding dresses to go viral.
A few labels have emulated this dress at even more affordable price points, including in different colors–let’s take a look!
Eternal Ivory’s Mary Ashley dress is the closest emulation of Self-Portrait’s original dress I’ve found, specifically because it’s maxi length with long sleeves and a pleated skirt with a side split. Unfortunately the dress is currently sold out, but has been restocked more than once. At only $129, it’s worth keeping an eye out for.
Eloquii’s take on this dress is full length with a beautifully pleated skirt and comes in four colors! Plus, it’s only $124.95.
Ivy City Co not only has a beautiful full length version of this gown for $148, but also
…a midi length take for $78! The midi comes in the above white, hunter green, pink, and black. Plus…
…a mini version for toddlers and little girls! Very cute flower girl dress, if I say so myself.
Have you found other shops or labels emulating the Self-Portrait gown? Let me know in the comments! Also, check out my previous two Pinterest Wedding Dresses and Where to Find Them posts!
Yay spring! I’m so happy sunny days and warmer weather are back, at least in my neck of the woods. This is such a beautiful time of year for more spontaneous weddings: elopements, courthouse ceremonies, and backyard celebrations with small guest lists but big fun. Even if you’re throwing a smaller celebration on a shorter timeline and stretched budget, it’s still *so* possible to find a beautiful dress–like these boho wedding dresses for under $100!
One of the absolute *best* wedding dresses available for under $100, the Awaken My Love Dress has a 4.5 star rating, over 1100 reviews, and is popping up in more and more both real wedding photos and wedding inspiration shoots! I love that a dress that only costs $86 is being featured and styled creatively, showing that a stunning wedding dress brides really want doesn’t have to cost thousands–or even hundreds–of dollars.
Another Lulus dress with rave reviews, the trendy geometric details on the straps and at the waist make this dress stand out–and look stunning in photos! The This is Love Maxi is only $80.
I love the simple, ethereal lace pattern cascading down this dress–which is only $45!
This simple, uber-versatile soft knit maxi dress (with pockets!) would look beautiful with a greenery crown or trendy celestial tiara–and is only $40.
Eyelash lace adds a soft boho touch to this gown’s sexy silhouette. This dress is only $29.
Imagine wearing this in a field of wildflowers for your elopement! This free-spirited yet elegant dress is only $76 and selling quickly, so get it while you still can.
Style this slinky, elegant dress with a quartz crystal tiara and greenery bouquet for a minimal, mystical boho look that will *stun.* At $56, this dress is affordable for almost everyone.
Looking for an easy, on-trend dress for a springtime courthouse wedding? Look no further! With this dress only costing $19, it’s affordable for every budget.
Style this dress with a painted leather jacket and wide-brimmed hat for a rock’n’roll boho look perfect for a desert elopement! The Meet Me in Madrid dress is $94.
Yet another Lulus gown with rave reviews! An elegant round neckline and floral lace make this dress simple and a standout at the same time. The Forever and Always Maxi is $92.
Have you found amazing wedding dresses for under $100? Let me know in the comments! Plus, if you’re looking for accessories to finish your look check out FBNW’s list of boho headpieces and hair accessories!